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The How-To Lounge: Combating Postwedding Blues

Tue, 07/15/2008 - 7:00am by DearSugar
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With all the excitement and energy leading up to a wedding, it's likely that the day after may seem a bit lacking. Add in the emotions, relief, and exhaustion from your big day, and it's a recipe for postwedding blues. But just because the wedding is over doesn't mean you don't have plenty to look forward to in your newlywed status. Check out my advice for combating postwedding blues, and read more.

  • Giving yourself something to look forward to after the wedding can make a big difference when easing yourself into the newlywed lifestyle. Consider planning your honeymoon for a week or two after the wedding, or even longer if you prefer; there's no right or wrong time to take a honeymoon.
  • If your honeymoon is already days away, but you're still worried the lag time will leave you disappointed and listless, try coming up with a few simple postwedding events to enjoy with your friends and family. Being around your loved ones who shared in the wedding excitement will keep your spirits soaring.
  • It's natural to feel sad, but remember it's not going to last forever. Once you and your husband settle into a routine as newlyweds, things will start to feel much more comfortable.
  • On that note, as you settle into your new routine, don't forget to incorporate the elements from your prewedding planning life, too. Put more time into your friends and pick up where you left off with your hobbies — both are easily bumped aside during planning mania.
  • Give yourself some alone time. It may be scary at first, but it's important to reacquaint yourself with who you are when not negotiating a looming wedding. Take long walks, read a new book, or go get a massage.

Just as quickly as postwedding blues come on, they disappear so keep your chin up, and if you need to, there's nothing wrong with going through your photo album to relive the memories from your big day.

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  • cmd0610's picture
    cmd0610
    1

    Thanks for the tips! We're getting married in April and everything now days is wedding related- it's a fun thing for us to do now but I can see how all the build up still leads to some "loss" okay maybe not the right word but you get my point- I'll keep these tips in mind.

    25 weeks 1 day ago Report Comment
  • ElizabethRae's picture
    ElizabethRae
    2

    Is there really such a thing?

    I hated wedding planning. I was so ready to be married and was glad when it was over! No sadness for me!

    YAY MARRIAGE!!

    And congrats cmd - you'll love it!

    25 weeks 1 day ago Report Comment
  • bransugar79's picture
    bransugar79
    4

    I just got married in April and boy I have to tell you after all the planning and stress there was no sad feelng the day after. I was so happy everything was finally done I slept in late and my husband and I just took a massive chill break. It was so much fun to be alone with him again and we were so excited to finally be married that we were giddy

    25 weeks 1 day ago Report Comment
  • j2e1n9's picture
    j2e1n9
    5

    I always wondered about this. People make such a big deal about it, I've always wondered what they do when its over. Go back to work I guess? Puzzled

    25 weeks 1 day ago Report Comment
  • Colleeninator's picture
    Colleeninator
    6

    I've never heard of someone being sad after their wedding. I was endlessly thrilled. I can't really see any reason for someone to be depressed unless they married the wrong man...

    25 weeks 1 day ago Report Comment

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