Thanks Savvy! This is very helpful!

Reading this checklist has made me more determined to keep my name!

Wow. Theres quite a bit to do. I never understood before why people put it off for so long, but now I get it. I still think that the excitement of taking your new last name would make it worth it though, especially if youre one of those girls like me who doodles my name with my boyfriend's last name on it constantly.

This is super handy. Hopefully I'll be getting ready to do this soon haha

Hi Everyone, this is so valuable. Please follow this to a T as I had problems with my tax refund this year due to the lack of coordination between the SSA and the IRS. I did finally get my refund but it was like 3 months later and had spent about a million hours on the phone and the SSA office. Finally received the refund but now am waiting for my stimulus check!

Or, you could just keep your name. Because you already have a name. Changing it reflects the historical practice of transferring the duty of taking care of a woman from her father to her husband. Because women are not full people capable of taking care of themselves. You are not becoming a new person, and you are not getting a new parent. You are an equal partner. Nobody expects men to change their names, and that's bull.

Printing this out and putting in my wedding notebook right now! Thanks!

I think some people make the process of changing your name to be worse than it really is. I did all of mine in one day - I started at Social Security, then went to the DMV, then the bank. It was honestly not a big deal at all! It helps if you take a day off work to just get everything done!

I expected to be able to get it done all in one day also. I ended up spending an ENTIRE day at the SS office, after being there when they opened. I decided to switch one credit card at a time, so it wasn't so much work all at once, and easier to keep track of. If it is remotely close to tax season, or you are flying anytime soon (honeymoon) I would wait to make the changes.

ladytron, there are a lot of traditions that people take part in that have LOST their significance and NO LONGER mean what they used to. nobody's forcing you to take a man's name, and no one should force (or bully, like you are doing) anyone else not to take a man's name. every woman has her decision.

Tejo, maybe I just had it really really easy - that totally sucks about spending all day at SS!! I would have gotten annoyed and gave up!

One other tip for others in the process - fill the forms out online ahead of time - it saved me a lot of time as well!

I am changing my name because I hate my last name. It's one of those names that's hard to spell, hard to pronounce, and hard to remember. I can't wait to have my husband-to-be's last name. Those who criticize others don't realize there's a convenience factor that justifies changing one's name. They must all have easy last names like "Smith" or something.

Without disclosing my last name here, it has eight letters in it, and six of them are vowels, including 2 "i's" and 3 "a's!" So you can see why I'm so anxious to change my name.

see - that's where the questions come along - how to change your name and to what extent. i figured that i would change my name personally but keep my name professionally - but i don't know if that makes things even more confusing. i'm usually one to be pro-active about things, but to be honest, i'm really not overly excited to do that whole paperwork processing thing.

Just a heads up: my browser had difficulty saving this file, because it has a forward slash after the .pdf, which implies that we're browsing to a directory!