Sounds like you're being selfish and you don't want them dating because you don't want to feel awkward...
you say your friend dates a guy for a week and ditches him before it gets serious? Im sorry but dating a guy for a week is no where near serious...it sounds to me like she is just a girl who knows what she wants and doesn't want to settle for anything less. Good for her for jumping ship before things get serious and leading a guy on. I say you need to grow up and let them make decisions for themselves...if you're truly their best friend you'll be supportive of whatever they decide to do and be happy for them.

hey..chill..and just let it go. they are adults and will figure it out for themselves.

Grow up and stop making this all about you. Dating someone for a week is not a serious relationship I agree with k8 better to end it than lead someone on.

come on people, its natural for her to worry about where she fits in to all of this, give her a break.

I understand how someone can worry about losing friends or changing their relationship dynamic but in the end, everyone is right. You can't stop a moving train so you might as well stay out of the way. Otherwise your fears will come true and you'll lose them both.

If you keep acting all crazy about the situation then you will lose them both. Sit back and let it play out how it will. When it falls apart tell them both that you don't want to be in the middle of it. They didn't want you in the middle of it in the beginning, so don't let them try to put you there in the end.

You're saying you're only worried for your guy friend, but what you really mean is that you're only worried for yourself. YOU don't want to feel awkard, you sound like you're just using "his feelings" as a cover. Who cares if they get together? You can't stop them from living their lives.

You didn't, by any chance, call her a man-eater when you talked to your guy friend, did you? Seems like it'd be okay for you to share your feelings about how you're worried about being left out, I'd guess your friend wouldn't freak out over that. But if you insulted the girl he likes - ooh, that's not good.

This really doesn't have to be a horrible friendship ruining thing. Everything can turn out just fine, but if you insist on making it a problem, that's gonna bite you in the ass before anything else does.

Stop being so selfish and give them a chance to atleast try. I was in the same situation, except I was super happy for them to be together. Of course I was a little jealous and kinda felt like the 3rd wheel, but the fact that they were both happy together kinda over-rode that. They have been married for 6 years now and have 3 kids together.

I once had a good friend who freaked out when I told her I kissed a guy that we both worked with and had all hung out together with before. She said something about me "ruining" our threesome of friends.

Fast forward 3 years, he and I are still together and neither of us could care less where that lame "friend" is now.

Moral of the story: unless you want to lose your best friends you should probably mind your own damn business and let them do what they want.

Fin.

i say stay out of it. if he does the same to him then he'll get a nice little lesson out of it. if they last... then be happy for them

Even if you do get involved, it will only put a strain on your friendships so butt out and put a smile on your face.

I agree -- stop being selfish and stay out of it. You're really being self-absorbed and immature. So two people who like each should not date because YOU don't want them to?? That's silly.

Their romantic entanglements are none of your business. Figure out how to be okay with it or put some distance between them and yourself.

You issued a warning to the guy. He told you to back off. End of story.

It's understandable on a lot of levels that you are apprehensive about this as it stands to affect you either way.

Unfortunately all you can do now is sit back and see what happens. And no more interfering or you'll lose them both as friends.

I'm not judging you as harshly as the others (or at all for that matter, I understand the predicament) - but I think you should give them a chance; maybe they will work out, and maybe it will be fun and you won't be left out, and maybe it will all turn out okay! So... don't stress it until it becomes a problem. And if one of them gets hurt, it's really just life (and if they come b*tch to you, just let them know YOU DON'T WANT TO HEAR IT. You have a right to say that )

I understand how you must feel but the best thing to do is stay out of it. You don't want to end up losing them both!

You tell your guy friend that she has a history of behaviour then its up to him to deal with it and handle it. They are adults and they want to date, butte out. Let the situation happen.

Sure it may suck to feel like the third wheel for a little while, but don't you want your friends to be happy? If you start feeling like a third wheel then you can talk to them about it, perhaps hang out with them one on one...or if you do a group outing invite a few more people along.