
Recently I attended a friend's destination
bachelorette party. I was having a lovely time until one of the organizers asked everyone to get their present. I looked around panic stricken and wondered how I didn't know about this special surprise.

Recently I went to a wine tasting where there was a huge platter of lamb with no serving spoon. The lamb — which had a succulent red wine sauce — was sliced into small bite-sized pieces and served warm in a caterer's pan. Like
not having enough eating utensils, not having the proper serving tools at a party is not okay.

A few Fridays ago, I attended the opening of a new club. The party was great; there was no line to get in, our names were actually on the list, it
wasn't overcrowded, and the music was perfect! What put me in a bad mood very quickly was the wait to get a drink.

When hosting any sort of an event, it is crucial to find the correct balance between too much open space and not enough room. If there is too much room, the party looks like an empty dance floor at a bad prom. If there is no room, it can be stifling and uncomfortable.

I recently attended a small potluck dinner at a girlfriend's house. Seven of us were in attendance, yet only four forks could be found in the kitchen!
I didn't say anything when I helped serve the Champagne in a martini glass, a beer mug, and a mix of random wine glasses.

Last weekend, I hosted a Winter getaway at my vacation house. Seven of my best girlfriends joined me for a wonderful weekend away. On Saturday, after a long hard day of
wine tasting, I found myself scrambling, half drunk around the kitchen making appetizers, dinner, and dessert.

A few weeks ago
FabSugar and I went to a party celebrating an issue of
SOMA magazine. According to the invite, the party started at 7 p.m.
Always fashionable, we arrived around 8.

I recently attended a very crowded party where the caterers ran out of clean serving glasses. When I went to order a second beer, the bartender — to my dismay — poured it into a champagne flute. I looked around the event and noticed chicly dressed PYTs sipping champagne from brandy snifters and white wine from whiskey tumblers!

I recently attended an event with
CasaSugar; at the bar she ordered a glass of Pinot Grigio. The bartender filled her glass halfway with the last of an open bottle. Needing more wine to fill her glass, he quickly grabbed an unopened bottle and went about twisting a corkscrew.